As we embark on a new Year, a reflection on 2018 seems worthy. Though I am not entirely sure how I feel about it, there were some major positives this year.
-We finally took that trip to my homeland. My husband’s first visit to Jamaica along with the kids, and while the flights were not entirely great, the trip was wonderful.
-I love spending time with my family, even though having children 21 months apart is not for the weak. It’s hard work and takes a lot of effort and patience. A few days after I initially started writing this post, reality slapped me in the face. I had 2 consecutive days of lack of patience and had difficult days with them. Here’s to hoping 2019 brings me more patience. I have learned that the three year old stage is not an easy stage, it is riddled with tantrums and negotiations. It requires a lot of trial and error and love. In my very limited years of parenting, this is the most challenging stage to date.
-I enjoy my own company, this I have known since my existence, I am an introvert by nature but I also enjoy stimulating interactions. I’ve never felt the need to always be surrounded by people, and this is totally okay. I don’t need an audience, I fill my infrequent alone time with may different activities.
-I do not commit to anything that will not bring me any benefit. If it wont positively impact my life or that of my family, do not count on me. My husband can attest to that. One of my favorite pass time/hobbies is to read. Recently i picked up a very popular inspirational/self help book, a few chapters in and i was very underwhelmed, I decided to give it a bit more of my time. Guys, its a book full of nonsense!! I know there are people out there who needs to be told by other people how great they are, but for me, it did not provide any validation to my character. Needless to say, that book was returned to the library quickly.
I refuse to fulfill something that I started, just for the sake of it. I know quite a few people who live by this mantra – I have to finish it because I started it. ” I have to finish this movie because I started watching it, I have to finish this meal because its expected of me.” What am I gaining from watching a crappy movie and losing sleep? Absolutely nothing!
-To be great, you must do the hard work. I know hard work, I am an island girl, I have a great career that required a lot of commitment. Invest in yourself now so that you can reap the benefits in the future.
2018, You have been good, hoping 2019 is great.
-SAB